To be honest, I don't believe in universal answers. Men, like women, are different. Some need a gentle and caring woman who will warm them with her warmth after a long day at work. Some need a bold and self-confident woman who inspires them to new achievements. And some dream of a partner with whom they can talk for hours about everything - from philosophy to their favorite ice cream flavor.

But what is important? I think it's not just about being perfect in someone's eyes. True happiness is being yourself and at the same time finding someone who appreciates you for this. Without masks, without trying to please, without an endless race for other people's expectations. When a man truly sees in a woman the one he wants to be with, it is not about some ideal. It is about the coincidence of souls, values ​​and rhythm of life.

When I think about it, I ask myself not only the question: “Does he want to see me by his side?”, but also another, no less important one: “Do I want to be by his side?” After all, a relationship is always about two people, about a mutual desire to be together, to grow together and to support each other.

Each of us is unique. Each of us has her own strengths, her own dreams, her own fears. And that’s okay. I realized that a man who is truly mine will want to see next to her not an “ideal” woman, but one who will be honest with herself and with him. One with whom you can laugh until you cry, discuss serious things and just be silent together.

And you know, if he is the one, he will see in you the one he wants to be with. Not because you changed for him, but because you are you. And that is the most valuable thing.

So today, looking at my reflection, I smiled. I don’t know what kind of woman a man wants to see me as. But I know that being myself is the best choice. And if he sees that, then he is the one standing next to me for a reason.