Defender's instinct.
A woman is looking for a man with whom she will feel safe. It is not necessarily about physical protection. It's about the feeling that you are always there, supporting her morally.

Conqueror's instinct.
We women like to feel chosen. A small gesture - even a simple compliment or a caring look - can tell her: "I chose you."

The instinct of unity.
It's about creating a deep connection where you show her that you're ready to be there not only for the good times, but also for the bad times. Women feel these things.

Use these three elements and you will see how she will start looking at you differently. It's not magic, it's the science of emotions.