You make her the center of your world, forgetting about yourself. Yes, you read that right! Men often think that "she" dreams of being in the first place. But in reality, women admire men who live their lives, have ambitions, goals and are not afraid to remain independent.
Get your focus back: Start working on yourself, your hobbies, career and fitness. She wants to be part of your successful life, not your only meaning.
Be mysterious: Don't reveal all your cards at once. Create an intrigue that she will want to solve.
Don't overdo it: Excessive attention and gifts can make you "too available." Be the one she wants to win over.
Conclusion:
Change your approach and you will see how her choice will change in your favor. Being "the same" man is about your confidence and inner strength.