I am an adult woman with two children. I am happy for this. But what is interesting for my country Ukraine it is taboo for a woman if she wants to find a good, caring, loving man. Is it fair ?
I have some girlfriends who are younger than me and have just one child, they are also lonely and in search for a man .
We have a serious discuss about who is willing to find a good man .
I think that for real feelings and relations, it doesnt matter if a woman have kids or not, the main her personality , how she looks and how comfortable a man feels himself with her. Children never should be a serious an obstraction in relations between a woman and a man. as children should be a super bonus in it . what do you thuink? I can guess that here are many men who are divorced and have grown up childrenor even grandkids and probably dont want to be daddies again lol i understand this! but this is not so scarry as you think. and when your woman gives you a lot in mental and physical meaning you dont mind to care for her blood kids.
Firstly after born children, a woman is like a flower blossoming with bigger forces . She becames more caress, sensual and attentive for her family. A woman makes good mood for whole family. Scientists dedicated that after have a baby a woman opens for a man with other side, more exciting and passion level in private life .
My girlfriends think that woman's children for men like a heavy luggage, so it is not easy to find right man if a woman has just one child and if a woman has two or more children, it is almost impossible ?
So, if a woman made a mistake in her life and choosen the wrong man, she shouldnt be happy ??
Mostly young girls are lazy, they pefer dont work and just looking for a rich men that men will care about girls all the time and will not give anything in return .
I am active all the time, I go to the gym , I go to the art galleries and museums, bring up my children with love and one my best wish to meet my second and last love. If I ask so much ?

with the best requards

Julia