First and foremost, women want real men, not walk-on try-to-pick-me men. If you sit and complain to your friends that "all girls are the same", I'm sorry. Here are three reasons why you're being overlooked:

You are in the friend zone.
If you walk around her like a puppy with bulging eyes, you automatically send yourself to the friend zone. Do you want her attention? Show that you are a prize, not an option.

Boredom is your main enemy.
You ask her "how are you?" and do you think it starts? Uhhh, no. Women want men who create emotions. Your message should sound like a challenge: "I know you want more than just boring talk."

You don't invest in yourself.
A woman wants to see a man who has a goal. If you are standing still in life, don't expect her to run to you. Make yourself interesting: train, develop hobbies, write plans.

Change, and then she will definitely pay attention. But I warn you: you will never be the "same" guy again.