We live in a world where we all shudder to think about consistently boring days that end in empty evenings, endless repetitions, and even silent glances between partners. Although it is rarely written about, but maybe it's time to say: men who settle for boring and monotonous relationships deserve... an affair. And I'm not talking about a "knight and lady" affair, I'm talking about a real spark, a flash of something unusual, alive.

Here's the paradox: men in relationships most often simply lack "madness" - and how else can you call it unexpectedness, if no big speech, no long dinners, no travel routes will make you fall in love with a person again? Sometimes passion fades not because love disappears, but because routine life suddenly takes over your life, making you forget how much you want to look for something that really makes your heart beat faster. It happens to everyone. Routine just sucks you in, begins to touch you imperceptibly.

As soon as I realized this at the time, I asked myself: "Why did I too often meet men who lacked something? Why did I see their usual apathy, isolation and horror before "let's get married and be together forever"?" But this is not about boredom, not about isolation ... This is about the fact that such men sometimes, like no one else, need excitement - a certain discrepancy between reality and their desires.

Remember how in books they like to describe scary scenes before the climax - here the character walks, realizing the inevitable, and seems to be holding himself in check? So, every man has this deeply hidden "expectation". Relationships become too convenient and predictable - stuffy in the sense that you fail to find the necessary incompleteness, excitement in each other. No one will benefit from such monotony. You need to be able to fall in love and again create those very things that give a charge of energy from actions.

Perhaps such revelations will seem frightening to you as a man. You are probably used to loving the same woman stably for a long time - but so what? This taskless routine, not always funny short strokes of life and moments in front of your TV, are definitely not created for your heart to blossom and soar in the world of feelings. On what grounds do we even think that relationships can live without drama, change and other sparks? This is not a question - but the memories of everyone who experienced that very love, when one evening without a kiss was worse than a thousand ... senseless days.

Every man would notice this, even if he does not admit it to himself, but it is worth talking about it openly.

Now let's move on to the important thing. Something has always stood in the way of discovering true potential, relationships that are filled with the spirit of adventure, romanticism. The waiting mode for a very long time becomes harmful. And why is it allowed then, if already at the first glance you feel that you need to wake up from the usual and add new colors? You take a step towards the awakened passion - living days again easily become beautiful.

Intriguing? Yes. It is completely unusual to not be calm with someone you still do not understand well. But this is liveliness. And if a man in his life at a certain stage of life had to feel not so often the beauty of time as enchanting reflections - it seems that no one will even touch it when love is somehow very dullly clouded, so imperceptibly turning into something completely different.

And do you think you deserve a truly passionate romance?

Lana Banana