Be transparent and open
Tell us about yourself: Share what you do, where you work or study. Transparency is the key to her peace.
Describe your date plans: Be clear about where and when you will meet so she knows what to expect.

Emphasize safety
Convenient location: Offer to meet in a public place near her neighborhood. This reduces the tension.
Contact: Give her a phone number or other way to get in touch quickly so she feels more confident.

Don't pressure her
If she hesitates, say, "I understand your feelings. We can discuss all the details to make you feel comfortable."
Give her time to think about the proposal.

Show respect
Listen to her: Ask her how she's feeling and take into account her wishes about the format of the meeting.
Don't be pushy: Your calm confidence will help her relax.

Building trust is about being sincere, caring, and attentive to her needs. Show that you are reliable and ready to make the first meeting as comfortable as possible for her. Then she will gladly come to you!