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The Art of Fully Appreciating a Woman, Apart from her Body
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You're laying beside her; she's deeply asleep.
Do you know her well? Do you fully appreciate her, apart from her body?
She has a personality, values, interests, qualities, talents, dreams, a heart, soul, mind.
Do you regularly tell her that you appreciate the fact that she's particularly good at this, and that?
Haven't you noticed that she's quite an orchestra?
She can cook; your belly will never feel better.
Once your belly is subdued, she'll move on to your heart.
She may also make a detour by your wallet, bank account., just to make sure everything's OK, that's all.
She has no problem going to buy groceries.
Did you say shopping? She invented it, along with bags, and credit cards.
Fur coats, designer dresses, shoes, lingerie, jewels, necklaces, including the inevitable one of cultured pearls, earrings, 99 carats, and carrots rings, beauty products, there are so many in the wardrobe, on the dresser, in that jewels box, in the bathroom cabinet, on the bathroom counter, that she just can't decide which one to put on, that she often convinces herself that she needs new ones for Saturday evening's night out, that you're forced to go shave in the garage, and to go dress in the attic.
She can see to clothes.
She can sew.
She can sue.
She can maintain an apartment, a house, clean, in good order, make it a warm, welcome home.
She can see to the family's finances.
She can be a good daughter, sister, friend, girlfriend, wife, mother, grandmother.
She can bear, deliver, breastfeed, raise, love a child, like no one else.
She can also defend the child like a real tigress.
She's pure love, in fact.
She can be good, simple, open, honest, respectful, loving, caring, attentive, romantic, faithful, family oriented (valuing children, education, health, that have no secrets, for her), communicative, considerate, understanding, deeply human, supportive, determined, hard studying/working, responsible, trustworthy, playful.
She can be femininity, delicateness, sensitivity, sweetness, intelligence, discretion, culture, refinement.
She can read, study, think, write. She can be deep, thoughtful. Philosophy (ethics, political philosophy)? Piece of cake.
Business administration, history, law, economics, political science, biological and physical sciences, psychology, literature, cultures of other people, languages, arts, like theater, music (classical, rock and roll) ,dance (social dance, tango, folkloric), drawing, painting, sculpture, photography? She can do them all.
Swimming, jogging, cycling, tennis, canoe, sailing, skating, cross-country, and alpine skiing, go to the gym or training centre? They're nothing more than appetizers, hors d'oeuvre, for her. Seeing her train, you realize that she's a pro, and you're just an amateur. Just seeing her appear in her flashy, trendy training gear, your sneakers start to melt.
Spending time in nature, in forests, mountains (camping), on rivers, lakes? Come on! Is that all? Can't somebody come up with a challenge for her?
She has talents like you wouldn't believe, when it comes to chatting.
If you don't know what a long, long distance call is, just watch her.
She also has some talent for arguing.
She can have a mind of her own.
In fact, she doesn't mind.
She even took mine.
You'll never beat her at pillow fights.
She can cuddle, giggle.
She may like to be kissed, to be held tight, to be told that you missed her, that you buy her little gifts, at times, that you invite her to a restaurant, at times.
Don't ever forget her birthday, and don't ever call her by the first name of another young lady.
She sometimes has a grumpy belly, a headache (always when you feel like the tiger of the month), a heartache.
She was a girl, she's a woman, she could win a Grammy, she'll be a granny.

Now, try to put everything together, to make a synthesis. You should get: Woman's Personality, Heart, Soul, Mind, One Hell of a Puzzle, Determination, Psychological Strength, One Who Could Stand Up to You, Who Could Often Be Better Than You, Beat You, but Who May Choose to Be Sweet with You, to Love You, a Woman Who'll Want to Feel Weak in Your Arms, to Be Protected by You, Who'll Want You to Act, Feel Like a Man. And don't forget that she too will want to fully appreciate, explore your Personality, Heart, Soul, Mind. Let her do so.
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