Hello, dear reader!


Imagine that you meet a person who, although he has appeared in your life not so long ago, but who makes you experience completely new sensations, something that you had previously only observed from the outside or, perhaps, dreamed of finding. This person becomes an important part of your world, and there comes a moment when you understand that you are ready to say: "Yes!"

So, if I were with him, my future husband, and he offered me to get a tattoo with his name, I don’t think I would wonder whether it was worth doing. I would probably agree. Without unnecessary thoughts, without difficult torments. It would be connected with a sense of trust, with the closeness that connects us.

I WANT to assure you that my body is clean today, despite the fact that I am already an old woman of 31 years old, ahaha.

I do not call myself romantic or prone to making impulsive decisions (for example, deciding to get a tattoo), but the very thought that I could give my future husband such a sign of trust is amazing. Firstly, it is an act of love. Secondly, how important it is sometimes to show that you are ready to do something significant for the sake of another person.

I cannot help but share my thoughts on how tattoos are now becoming something quite ordinary. Previously, it was extremely unpopular, and not everyone accepted it. But over time, tattoos are increasingly becoming not just decoration, but a unique way to express belonging or deep feelings. It is not at all necessary for a tattoo to have a complex meaning. It is important that it responds to the feelings living in a person, those that are sometimes difficult to express in words.

When I think about a relationship that allows me to do this, I immediately imagine a person with whom I am not afraid to talk and decide on such unexpected things. He will not laugh or judge for my desires, he will be grateful for the confidence, for the moment that made me decide.

There is another side to this topic - the relationship with myself. With age, I began to perceive myself differently. There were moments of doubt, periods of uncertainty, sometimes even fear. But there was also a stage when I decided: you do not need to judge yourself harshly for desires and ambitions that can change over time. No one will tell you what to do with you and your body. With what is important and meaningful at the moment.

These are exactly the moments when I am not afraid to make decisions. But all these thoughts still remain inside me. Will the name that I will one day write on myself with love symbolize me and my destiny with this person for life? I can’t say for sure yet. However, if this life continues in the context that is really important to me, I think, why not?

It's just nice to think that sometimes you can approach a relationship with such complete acceptance, when simple things are not so great in themselves, but the essence is significant. And of course, let's be honest, when you trust a person to such an extent that you want to dedicate something as big as your own body to them. That says a lot, doesn't it?

I'm interested in your opinion. Perhaps you would dare to do something similar too. Maybe it will just work out that someday we both - you and I - will be with this person. That moment when these feelings are clear and understandable enough. The question is simple: would you get a tattoo with my name?

Lana Banana