Let me share with you a few thoughts that are important to think about when it comes to women in relationships. You have probably noticed how some women are able to forget about this in an instant and begin to behave too “openly”. I am not talking about those who consciously prioritize freedom and devotion. I am talking about those little things that can sometimes take a relationship beyond the bounds of respect.

I will say right away - being married or in a serious relationship should not become a barrier to communication. I believe that any woman can remain feminine, attractive and bright, despite her status in the relationship. However, this should be done with an understanding of your own boundaries and respect for your partner. Not everything that seems easy and casual remains so in reality when it comes to sincerity.

You may have often encountered women who start conversations with you, trying to flirt or make compliments that can be perceived as something more than just communication. I know that flirting can be playful and sensual, but let's think about it - what happens to this when a woman whose hand is already occupied by another man behaves in this way? What is she like for you? And what do you want from this communication?

In order for a man to feel comfortable in such situations, there is no need to overexert himself on the theatricality of her behavior or frivolous adventures. It is much more valuable to understand how important it is to respect status, the fact that a woman has her own personal life, her own obligations. Why not show concern for your partner in these matters? After all, the most important thing for you is honesty and openness in a relationship. For a woman, it is just as important.

I don’t want to impose harsh guidelines on you now about how to “correctly” behave with women or dictate behavior to her that may no longer be interesting or important to her. Just think about it, do you respect a woman who cannot set her own boundaries?

The most important aspect we are approaching is clarity of intentions and one’s own boundaries. What should be the limit? Why should her words “I am only interested in a serious relationship” really be heard? Why should her serious attitude towards her partner (or the person she is in a relationship with) be obvious to you? It’s simple - it’s not just an obligation, it’s an action that moves in both directions, and each of us must understand that these are the conditions.

A relationship is a big responsibility. Of course. A woman in a relationship should feel that her partner understands that she is not just there for this moment or for flirting, but to create something more. For development, growth, the ability to be close to each other. A woman who respects her other half will never behave in a way that would show the dubiousness of her serious intentions. Therefore, it is important to remember that such a woman should not flirt and behave vulgarly in public, even if communication is easy.

Lana Banana

Bye.