Technology makes our lives easier in many areas, but despite this, more and more often I notice how people get lost in the search for answers to fundamental questions. We are looking for love, loyalty, harmony, but at some point we get lost among material offers and expectations.

We often hear that in order for a relationship to be full and harmonious, it is important to combine emotional closeness and physical attraction. However, in our age of technological wonders and everyday stress, one of the most difficult moments for a couple is finances. Sometimes it seems that modern culture puts material resources on a pedestal even in matters related to personal relationships.

But everything is so simple if you really stop and think.

When a woman says that she is looking for a partner who will be able to give her true love and without thinking “count every penny”, it seems that many men are at a loss. Why? The issue of finances is always discussed openly, indicating security and self-sufficiency, forcing one to fall into a certain vicious circle. But what if, indeed, the most important goal is sincere mutual understanding and openness? What if financial pressure does not prevail?

Sometimes, I wonder: are such men really rare? In society, we are used to talking about partner expectations, that, they say, a man should provide for a woman. And this model was born at the beginning of the last century, in a completely different context. It was based on physical labor and the division of responsibilities between men and women. But already in the 21st century, in the era of changes and changes, when all issues can be resolved with the help of smart applications and services, how relevant and important it is to understand that love is not a commodity. Not an instant process of exchanging something valuable in exchange for other assets. But a real and deep process of two souls in the same rhythm.

That is why when I talk about my views and relationships, I know exactly what I expect from a partner: maturity, respect and readiness to build not just a life together, but to experience and explore this world together.

I perceive relationships not as a temporary value that needs to be maintained only by “that very” provision. For me, harmony is a space that is opened not by the amount of material resources, but by daily attention to each other. Do you know how to listen, how open are you to maintaining deep conversations? This makes the relationship real. Of course, it is important to provide for your other half, but shouldn’t these efforts consist not in accumulation, but in real care and joint development?

I think that not only a woman needs stability. A man should also be self-confident, because only in this case both partners can show true love - not on the basis of financial dependence, but on the basis of common aspirations, harmony, the search for pleasure and joy in every day together. That is why I believe that there will always be room for love and confidence in the future between us, without the excessive pressure of monetary settlements.

So isn't it enough for us in 2025 to accept and live these moments of real happiness without obligations to complex and limiting contracts?

I suggest you, my dear, answer this question for yourself: what is more important for you - to provide mutual relations with resources or to give mutual recognition, which is not necessarily connected with the presence of money?