I’ve always been wary by statement “friendly sex”. It seems that it is steeped in hypocrisy and understatement. Friendship and sex - are they compatible? All depends from how to think about its meaning. For me, “friendly sex” is a kind of sex without further proceedings and responsibilities. Is it good or bad?

Ok, let us be frank, when we feel sexual attraction to a man (or a woman) we don’t think about our silver anniversary :) But on the other hand, we can’t feel this sexual attraction without any feelings! I want to say, that for me, sex is the next stage in relationship, which I can’t make with every friend!

From this, I can make such conclusion: if I make a decision to surrender to sex with this or that man, I will think about him not as about “friend”, but someone more special for me.

From my point of view, friendly sex is a “comfortable place” of those people, who don’t want or can’t find his or her soul mate to delight love together. Imagine situation, that our boyfriend or girlfriend, or even wife or husband catch us having sex with another person. And we are telling with the smile on our face: “Honey, please, does not worry, it’s just friendly sex” :) It sounds at least funny!

For that, I think that the best way to stop discussing on this theme is to find your love person! This is why I’m here, and I’m sure you too!

But of course, every person should decide for himself what to choose in the life: long term relationship, friendly sex, or may be try to combine it ;) Anyway, be careful!! :)

Alexandra