Why do men fail on dating sites? passivity, infantilism and lack of responsibility
Dating sites have become a popular way to find love, communication or a serious relationship. However, many men face disappointments, not understanding why their attempts are doomed to failure. The main reasons are passivity, infantilism, lack of responsibility and even the desire to find a “sweet mommy” who will solve all their problems.

Passivity: waiting instead of action
Many men on dating sites choose the waiting strategy. They create a profile, add a few photos or leave the profile empty. And wait for women to write first. But this approach rarely works.
Women expect initiative. A simple “Hi, how are you?” or sending a phone number is unlikely to arouse interest. You need to be active: study the girl’s profile, ask questions that show genuine interest, and be ready to maintain a dialogue. Passivity is perceived as a lack of interest and quickly repels.
Infantilism: unwillingness to grow up

Infantile behavior is another problem. It manifests itself in complaints about past relationships, endless stories about one’s problems, shifting the blame onto others, and an inability to make decisions. Men who behave like teenagers create the impression of immature individuals.
Dating sites are a place where people look for self-confident and mature partners. Infantilism raises doubts about whether a man is capable of being reliable and responsible.

Search for a “sugar mommy”
There is a category of men who are not looking for an equal partner, but want to find a woman who will solve all their problems for them. Such men expect a woman to support them emotionally and financially, while avoiding her own efforts. This approach causes mistrust and repels women who are looking for a partner, not a burden.

Lack of responsibility: avoiding effort
Some men believe that successful communication should develop by itself, without their efforts. They simply sit on dating sites for years and wait for the girl to organize their meeting herself. This position leads to failure.
Relationships require responsibility from the very first steps: from creating an interesting profile to building a trusting relationship. If a man is not ready for this, he quickly loses his chances of success.

How to change the situation?
Be active. Take the initiative, ask questions, be interested in the interlocutor.

Get rid of infantilism. Work on maturity, develop and learn to solve problems.

Don't look for a sugar mommy. A woman will quickly notice your mercenary interest and lose interest in you.

Take responsibility. Create a dialogue, show sincerity and be ready to make an effort.

Dating sites can be a great tool for finding love if you approach them with the right attitude. Be active, mature and responsible - and success will not be long in coming!