My friend is too skinny & wants me to keep the diet also.. you like me as i am? The matter is that her husband is obsessed with an ideal figure. When they got married she was all in sports and with a weight of 50 kg and a height of 172. Now, after the birth of a child, she weighed 56 kg, but I will not say that she looked terrible. Opposite he addmitted that now he likes her Big chest! But not the rests! Yes, in some places it was superfluous, but gradually it left. her husband constantly reproached her for not keeping up with herself, why she still do not lose weight, and the only thing she can do with her free time is just walking ... you would be horrified if you see how morally he is pressing on her! there were a lot of tears and tears ... as a result, against the background of stress, the child has nutrition problems and she also and she has lost weight to 47 kg. No muscles, nothing. Just terribly thin, in a mirror to look terrible .. .. and her husband seems to be finally happy with this form.. he does not see that she looks like an anorexic and that does not feed the daughterherself, but with mixtures, from 6 months .. .a he hinted at the second child .. I'm thinking, how would they survive the second one ?? If he killed her so morally due to extra KG with the first child? Do you want one funny thing? on public he calls her HIS Rabbit! When people ask why he replies that she loves only carrots and nothing else... :) Sometimes she comes to me at work when i have a lunch time and we go for a walk. She says that everything is fine in bed, but she has a terrible moral condition. And probably there are no such feelings as before for him that were due to this humiliation ...
I do not know now how should they both behave and what to do with weight? Maybe the dieat is not the way out? Maybe they should both visit a family doctor? Maybe ballance her food, physical training and probably enlarge the part of the body he likes to be bigger? lol Look at me!!! I am not a perfect body, but i have a thing waist..and just try to move more. i feel in peace with my soul and my body. Personally me... I do not like such thinness of my girl friend, but He is silent ... (((is it worth it to recover a little ??

I know that maybe for a man is very important to keep his wife slim. But it takes time and patience.. And by the ways he told me one thing! That she thinks if she would not loose her weight he would leave her with a kid. lol How is that? Ukrainian men have so "nice" mentality it seems

What do you think about it?

Tatyana

P.S.:

I am chewing a super tasty sandwich with ham, cheese and salad right now lol