A break from romance is the best time for yourself
When your loved one is not around, you can just be yourself. Overeat pizza (alone!), watch "old" TV series (like "Friends", although it is obvious that they are not 20 years old, but we still enjoy watching them!). Who prevents you from turning on romantic music at night and thinking about how ideal it would be to spend the evening ... if you did not have to work on Monday? Do you know what I discovered? Time without your loved one is like a day without an internet connection: a little uncomfortable, but you'd be surprised how many new and useful things you can do! After all, no one will stop you from reading books, watching season 7 of Sherlock, or pursuing your own crazy hobbies. For example, I'm thinking about signing up for an acrobatics course. After all, you can do whatever you want when you're alone! Loneliness is not a death sentence. In fact, when your loved one is not in your heart, it doesn't mean you can't have fun! It might even be a chance for some. For example, I start dancing in the bathroom to my favorite music in the morning, because, well... someone has to do it until the man comes home! And don't forget, my dears! When your loved one is not in your heart, it doesn't mean there are no people in your life who can support you, amuse you, or just make you laugh. A friend who always forgets where she left her keys, but knows how to make you laugh until you cry? This is also a kind of love, right?
So, while your prince on a white horse is somewhere in a traffic jam (or, perhaps, somewhere in another universe), you can aim for a wonderful relationship with yourself and everyone who is always there. Close friends, family, funny animals - they can all be those who will brighten up your loneliness. There is no problem if you are your own "love"!
Ultimately, no one says that being without a loved one is always fun. There are also moments when you want to cry under a cozy blanket in a movie, yes. But this is normal. After each experience comes that very feeling of freedom - and the wonderful realization that, in fact, you yourself can be your own best friend, and sometimes even your loved one.
So, when there is no loved one in your heart, remember - there are many other ways to make your life bright, fun and full of happiness! With love (to yourself and to life), Nadya .