When he proudly tells you that he loves buckwheat with milk, and you think: "Isn't this a warning sign?" Or when he compliments you and says: "You're so... unusual!" - as if he's unsure whether this is a plus or a reason to call a dating service. My last "not my romance hero" was a real expert in creating awkward situations. One day, he decided to surprise me and gave me a certificate for an archery lesson. It seemed like a great idea, but here's the problem: I'm left-handed, and he bought a bow for my right hand. His phrase, "Well, it's not comfortable to hold, no big deal!" instantly drew a line under our "romantic adventures."
Or there was that time when he decided to cook dinner. "I'm the chef in the kitchen!" – he said proudly. Bottom line: I am the head of the rescue team that rescued my kitchen from the captivity of smoke and burnt pizza. But you know what? Even these "wrong heroes" teach us something important. For example, I now know for sure that my man should at least be able to read instructions before cooking! So, if a hero appears on your horizon, but you understand that this is not his novel, do not rush to get upset. He has his own adventure, and you still have the perfect chapter ahead with someone who will definitely be on the same wavelength. Marina.