Someone once said that " A man without fear is a man without hope" but how does a man find hope or keep hope while his biggest fears have come to pass. I have expierenced this personally within my past and all that I learned was that no matter how hard we try, if someone feels "caged" within a marriage, then success is quite unlikely. If emotions are suppressed to the point that neither partner can express their feelings for one another openly, well, all trust and respect for each other is lost. Eventually so is the Marriage. So ladies, have no fear to open youself for the man that truly loves you. He will want to win your trust and respect ...(elk).. :)