To take revenge. Let him feel the same pain. Let him know what it is like to be deceived. But you know what I realized? The thirst for revenge is an illusion of control. It seems to us that in this way we will restore balance, but in fact, we ourselves allow this pain to eat away at us from the inside.

I was cheated on too. And I also thought about revenge. I wanted to write to him, to tell him what he really was. I wanted to make him feel bad. But then I realized! This is so inconsistent with my faith! The more I fixate on revenge, The more I continue to live in this pain. As if I am being betrayed again and again.

Instead of revenge, I chose a different path. I gave everything to the Judgment of God. Because if there's one thing I'm sure of, it's that nothing goes unnoticed. No one will go unpunished for their actions. But that's not my concern anymore. It's not my cross to bear.

I believe that if you've been cheated on, if you're feeling trampled, betrayed, don't hold a grudge. Don't give that person power over your soul. Because while you're stewing in hatred, he's probably not even thinking about you.

Is it fair that you give him even more of yourself after he's already taken your trust?

Lana Banana