Valentine's Day is the day when all the romance in the world is focused on one simple task: to impress. But what to do if your relationship is just beginning? How to avoid getting into an awkward situation while still showing care and attention? Don't worry! I'm here to help you get through this day without stress and make it special for both of you. 😍💖

💬 Don't worry if you don't know what to do
Gents, if your relationship with a girl is just beginning to develop, you shouldn't set yourself the task of becoming a romantic guru. At this stage, it is important not to overdo it and not rack your brains over what exactly to give or how to arrange a "perfect" evening. The main thing is to be sincere and pay attention to her personality. Even a small gesture that shows that you are thinking about her will be valuable. 💝😊

🎯 Don't push her with expectations
You've just started communicating, and she most likely doesn't want a grand show with luxurious gifts and lush confessions. It's important to remember that this day should not be overloaded with high expectations. Just don't put her in an awkward position by demanding something too big or too personal from her. It will be best if you simply invite her to spend time together - for real and without unnecessary words. 👌💕

💌 A simple and sincere gesture is all that is needed
As trite as it may sound, sometimes the simplest things are the most touching. Write her a sweet note or card in which you say that you are happy to spend time together. Give her something personal and symbolic for your first holiday, for example, a small trinket that is associated with your first date or shared moments. It won’t be too loud, but it will be very touching. 💖📝

🍕 Plan a simple but enjoyable pastime
Don’t try to arrange a million-dollar evening if your relationship is not at that level yet. Instead, suggest something light and casual, like a walk in the park 🌳 or dinner in a cozy cafe 🍝. You can play board games 🎲, watch a movie 🎥, cook something together - anything that will give you the opportunity to just be together and enjoy the moment. The simpler, the better! 😌💕

🎧 Listen to her expectations
If you are not sure how to approach this day, do not hesitate to ask her how she sees it. Ask a light question, for example: “How do you feel about this day in general?” This will help you better understand her preferences and avoid possible misunderstandings. She might be happy to spend it modestly and without unnecessary fuss 🧘‍♀️, or on the contrary, she might want something unusual. The main thing is to be open and honest. 💬💗

🧘‍♂️ Don't forget about yourself, that's also important!
Don't forget that Valentine's Day is not only about the girl, but also about you. Don't let yourself get too nervous and set too high expectations for yourself. Take this day as an opportunity to relax a little, and not as a competition to produce the perfect romantic plot. Relationships are a gradual process, and this day will most likely become just another milestone on your way. 😌🌱

Important advice: just be yourself. 😘

The most important thing is to not try to be someone else. Show her that you value her company and enjoy the conversation. Valentine's Day is just a day, but your relationship is something more significant. The more sincere you are, the better. 💕✨

Maria 💖