We all know about the existence of the famous picture book that tells you how you can twist yourself so that you get even more out of the process. But many of the “tips” from there are suitable only for acrobats, 🤸‍♂️ haha. My advice, which I've come to over time, would be simpler and more doable.

Just like fire needs air to burn, 🔥 desire needs space to accumulate. Once you've merged into one, you can no longer consider each other. 👀
Accordingly, in order to open up the view, to consider a person, to miss them, to fantasize about them, you just need to move away from them. 🏃‍♀️ At this distance, there is a passionate need of the partners for each other.

Does this mean that it is necessary to “rest” from each other physically, to go away for a while? You can, but you don't have to. 🤷‍♀️ You see, “space” can be not only physical - its function can be fulfilled by some situation that will reveal the partner from another side, shine a spotlight on him/her. 🔦

Desire is always heightened when there is a sense of novelty. 🆕 In these moments, we instantly change our perception of our partner, becoming open to the mysteries that live around us. ❤️‍🔥
What do you think about this? I look forward to your opinions and ideas. And maybe I'll share some more of my observations. 😏