In the Catholic tradition, marital love is considered something sacred. In the Bible, in the letter to the Ephesians (5:25), it says: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church and gave himself for her.” These are not just words, it is a call to unconditional love and a willingness to give yourself for the happiness of another. But what about women? It is well known that in a happy marriage, both partners strive to bring joy to each other.

In the book of Proverbs (31:10-12) we read: “A virtuous wife is a crown to her husband. Her husband’s heart trusts in her, and he will not be a loser. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Agree that when you take care of your man, when you try to make his life brighter and easier, it brings joy not only to him, but also to you. A woman who supports her husband, gives him confidence, helps him to reveal his potential, becomes not just a companion for him, but also a friend, and sometimes a real guardian angel.

A woman who strives to be close to her husband in every sense is not limited to external manifestations of love. She supports, encourages, listens, is a source of inspiration and strength. I am sure that you, dear women, understand how important it is not only to look beautiful, but also to be a source of peace and comfort in the home. The Gospel of Matthew (5:14) says: "You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden."

The same applies to married life. Being a "light" for a husband means not only decorating the house, but also being the one who helps him shine in the world. Be a source of love and patience, show that home is a place where you can always find support. This is important, because there are different moments in our lives, and it is important to know that you are always welcome at home, like in a fortress.

I know that many men, especially on dating sites, are looking not only for external attractiveness, but also for those qualities that can give a feeling of inner comfort and harmony. A woman who can create an atmosphere of comfort, be faithful, supportive, ready to share joys and difficulties with her husband is a great value for any man. A man, in turn, should be the one who appreciates and respects such a woman, who is ready not only to receive, but also to give.

The secret is in the ability to please not only externally, but also to maintain internal harmony. This means that a woman and a man should be in constant search of what makes their relationship stronger, what strengthens their love. When both partners are open to dialogue, when they are ready to support each other in difficult moments, this makes their love real and long-term.

A woman who lives joyfully for her husband, becoming his support in life and in spiritual aspirations, builds not just a relationship, but a real union of two souls. It is important to remember that care and love in marriage are not something external, but deeply internal, which arises in relationships that go through prayer, respect and mutual support.

As a Catholic, I believe that in every marriage, in every love, there is room for growth, for sincere affection and real care. Being a wife is not just a role, it is a sacred duty before God and your husband, and when you are happy in this, your husband will be happy too. After all, as the Scripture says, "Happy is he who finds a faithful wife; her price is far greater than rubies" (Proverbs 31:10).

Could I be right?

Lana Banana