Men and women work equally together.
I come from a very huge family literally. 30 uncles and aunts, 9 siblings in my family counting me that makes 10 of in my family. My 1st cousins range in ages from 80- late 30's literally.
In every family from my own to my cousins. There is no such thing as woman's work and man's work.
It's our work as a family!
Men help raise children, change diapers, cook, clean and more. The wives help their husbands as well. Men go grocery shopping or the wife or they go together.
Men will carry in the groceries for their wives. As the wife puts them away.
The wives will help their husbands on everything as well!
The men in my family were trained to e this way by our grandparents and great grandparents who immigrated to the US centuries ago. Husbands and wives had to work together to raise a family and work on their farms or run a business.
If one got hurt or sick the other parent would enlist the older children to help.
And each parent knew the responsibilities of the other. So they could make sure their spouse could recover faster with no worries .
Many hands make light work!!!
It also created a special bond in those marriages. That's why most marriages in my family go 30, 40, 50 and over 60 years. They are life long marriages.
Divorce has happened but it's very rare in my family.
How has it worked for my family and extended family? ( 1st cousins ).
Not one has went to jail, not one has a drug or drinking problem, or criminal record.
The entire point is life is hard enough.
People have to let go to the belief they are entitlement and right issues.
Based off a monarchy based structure.
How has the monarchies done? They are just symbolic now. The truth is we all need each other. Being fair, honest, loyal , faithfulness, and respectful to each other is what is needed in long term marriages.
Not his or hers, not my way, not individualistic , none of those work.
Yet you have to still respect boundaries and limitations of each other.
Ask yourself in the grand scheme in life what truly matters?
Does it matter how the towels are folded, what goes where.
Being anal and uncooperative with your partner destroys love and your relationship.
Give and take happens in relationships. If it's not near 50/50 split in your relationship won't last.
Using sex and intimacy as weapons to get your way. Or money or strength. Your relationship was over before it started.
Life " IS SIMPLE AND EASY" !!!
Your choices and reactions are what creates your difficulties in your life.
If you place yourself for sale , you never know who your buyer will be. See how people treat cars as an example.
If your overly dominant and controlling. Watch what happens to something you apply to much pressure to. It breaks!
Life is about fairness, karma, and being the best you can be.
Everyone is different, yet still we're all the same. So accept change and differences. But don't go against your moral compass . If it's wrong you know it.