The world is structured in such a way that we inevitably take on certain roles, and these roles define the dynamics of our relationships. This role-playing happens unconsciously but naturally: a storyteller cannot exist without a listener, a leader without a follower, or a savior without someone to rescue. Romantic relationships follow the same principle—we attract a partner whose role naturally complements our own.

We are like puzzle pieces: if we have a need to be led, we find someone who wants to lead. If we thrive on caring for others, we attract those who need that care. There is no right or wrong in this dynamic—the only question is whether these roles bring us happiness.

Change begins when one person realizes that their old role no longer brings fulfillment. As they evolve, their partner may find that they can no longer maintain their previous position. At this point, one of two things happens: either the couple adapts to the new dynamic, or the relationship falls apart, making space for a new union.

It's important to understand that people respond not to our words but to our actions and behavior. If someone constantly faces betrayal, they may be unconsciously signaling an expectation of that very scenario. If a person is used to playing the role of a "savior," they will inevitably encounter those who need saving.

Breaking free from an unwanted role is a conscious choice. One can step away from the familiar script and stop sustaining a system that no longer brings joy. But it's crucial to remember: when you change, the people around you inevitably change as well. Some will adapt and stay, while others will leave. And that’s okay.

Relationships are a living mechanism that evolves along with us. The key is to recognize whether they still align with our new selves or have become a constraining outfit that we’ve outgrown.