i just read the letter from the gentleman titled "let's talk about letters"! i thought it was very well written and thought out and agree that many of the ladies seem to have a "canned" or "pre-written" response for all men taht correspond with.

i find that the generic letters are not sincere and no thought given. also, i truly enjoy many of the letters but feel others are nothing more than come on's to get me to chat with them as it is their job to seperate me from my money for a commission.

it also appears that many are not even reading my profile as i have included a preference to be called to see if anyone was reading the profile....so far i'm not convinced that anyone does.......just fire out emails which again i do enjoy for the most part.

ladies, i am 55 years old and while you all are very beautiful i am not looking for someone in their teens or early twenties.......i originally thought 35 would be the floor but there is a handful of ladies that seem extremely mature in their late twenties......28-29-30..... i am not looking for tattoo's, tongue peircings or other body parts inked or pierced other than ears....a bit old fashioned i guess. also, i have no desire to see you in revealing clothes in chat and hinting you may "surprise" me by showing more.....major turn off for me and i will never chat with that type of lady. the lady i want to be with needs to have a level of class and maturity to make me feel secure she is loyal and faithful and never make me wonder who or where she is or with.

the best of luck to us all....gentleman and ladies, i hope we all find what we seek to complete our lives!