Dear men, as a woman, it's easy for me to understand that sometimes it's not that easy for you with women. 😅 Of course, each case is unique, but as a person who has observed many men's stories throughout my life, I am ready to share a frank look at the reasons why many of you cannot find your happiness in a relationship. 💔

1. You are not open enough to emotions 😬💔
Men often say that women are emotional and unpredictable creatures, but you know what? We see you too. Sometimes your unwillingness to express feelings or even openly talk about what is important to you creates a huge barrier. 🙄 We love it when you are not afraid to say what you think and show what you feel. But closed, silent men who keep their feelings to themselves may seem distant. It's scary. 😟 A woman, especially at the beginning of a relationship, wants to feel needed and appreciated. If you don't open up, she will look for someone who will show her their soul. 💕

2. The "I don't need help" position 💪🚫
You know, I love seeing confidence in men. But there is a fine line when confidence turns into stubbornness. 😬 A woman wants to feel that she can be useful in a relationship, that she is not just a companion, but a real support. 🤝 If you are always in the "I can handle it myself" position, you deprive her of the opportunity to be there. And, frankly, it is very tiring to be constantly in the background. 🚶‍♀️ Love is not only your victory, but also her contribution to your common victories. 🏆

3. Disrespect for her independence 🙅‍♀️💼
Very often men perceive successful, ambitious women as a threat. But what is more important - look at it as an opportunity! 💪 Relationship failures often happen when you perceive a woman as your "rival" or feel threatened by her success. 💼 A woman who strives for her goals and a man who respects her independence are the perfect team. 💑 Relationships where each partner has the right to their own interests and ambitions eventually become strong. But if you constantly try to suppress her desires, this will lead to a breakup. 💔

4. The desire to "make her perfect" 🧐💁‍♀️
Let's understand once and for all: women are not perfect. 😇 We won't walk around the house in snow-white dresses and we won't be inspired every day, like in the movies. 📽 When a man tries to mold a woman into his "ideal" model, she loses herself. Women reveal themselves best in relationships where they are appreciated as they are, with their pros and cons. 💅 Try to accept her, not change her. And you will see how much will change in your favor. 🌟

5. Lack of common goals and values ​​🎯🌍
A woman can be in love with you, but if you do not have common life goals with her, this can become a problem. 😕 Imagine that you are standing on different banks of the same river. She pulls you along, but you do not hear her. Where will this lead? Separation. 🌊 A woman wants to see next to her a person with whom she has the same goals, ambitions, outlook on life. If you live in different worlds, sooner or later it will start to feel like emptiness. 💔

6. Ignoring her needs 🚫💬
Yes, we are all human, and each of us has our own needs. But, alas, men often forget that a woman also needs attention and care. 🥺 A woman wants to be listened to, to have her opinions and feelings valued. Sometimes you are so focused on your needs that you do not notice hers. This does not mean that your needs are not important - but if you do not learn to appreciate a woman on a deep level, you risk being alone. 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

7. Self-esteem issues 💔🙇‍♂️
As strange as it may be, some men are actually afraid of women. They are afraid not because of weakness, but because their self-esteem is too fragile. 😕 When a man is not confident in himself, when he constantly doubts that he is worthy of love, this is reflected in the relationship. Women feel this uncertainty, and if it is too obvious, it can cause rejection. 😔 Remember that confidence is attractive. If you do not believe in yourself, how can she believe in you? 🤔

Conclusion 📝💕
Why are you unlucky with women? Perhaps because you have not yet discovered one of the most important aspects of a relationship - respect and mutual understanding. When a man is ready to work on himself, be open, respect a woman, and not try to change her, he creates the basis for a healthy and harmonious relationship. 🤗
Don't be afraid to be honest, don't hide your feelings and don't be shy about showing your vulnerability. After all, believe me, these are the qualities that make you not only more attractive, but also truly loved. 💘
With love, Your observer. 😘

Kristina🔥