Hormonal storm: what happens in the body?

Falling in love is not just emotions, but a complex cascade of biochemical reactions. The main culprits of romantic passion are neurotransmitters and hormones:

1. Dopamine - the pleasure hormoneWhen we see a person we like, our brain begins to produce dopamine - a substance associated with the reward system. It is he who causes euphoria, increased motivation and the desire to be close to the object of love. This explains why we literally hang out on our loved one, think about him constantly and experience a real thrill from communication.

2. Oxytocin – the hormone of attachmentWhen relationships move to a deeper level, oxytocin comes into play – the hormone that strengthens the emotional connection and builds trust. It is released during hugs, kisses and especially during intimacy. It is often called the “hug hormone” or the “loyalty hormone”.

3. Serotonin – the hormone of happiness (or madness?)Studies show that in people in love, serotonin levels drop to the same level as in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. This may explain obsessive thoughts about a partner, a constant desire to be close and irrational actions in the name of love.

4. Adrenaline and norepinephrine – hormones of passionAt the sight of the object of affection, adrenaline is released into the blood – the heart begins to beat faster, palms sweat, and the notorious “flock of butterflies” appears in the stomach. Noradrenaline, in turn, makes us feel a surge of energy and increases romantic attraction.

Why does love "pass"?

Over time, dopamine levels decrease, and the storm of emotions subsides. But this does not mean that love disappears. It transforms. If at the beginning of a relationship we literally depend on our partner, then over time oxytocin and vasopressin come to the fore - hormones responsible for long-term attachment. They are the ones that make love strong, reliable and stable.

Is it possible to "make a person fall in love" with the help of chemistry?

Theoretically, yes. Experiments show that increasing oxytocin levels promotes trust and attachment, and the effect on the reward system can enhance romantic feelings. However, true love is not only chemistry, but also a deep emotional connection, compatibility and shared values.

Conclusion

Love is not just a poetic feeling, but a complex biological process involving hormones and neurotransmitters. Science explains why we fall in love, why we suffer so much from separation, and how strong attachments are formed. But despite all the research, there remains something elusive and magical that makes love truly special. And perhaps that’s its greatest secret.