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πŸ”₯ what men dream about but are afraid to say (and why is it normal?) 🀫
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Hello, men! πŸ‘‹πŸ˜
Today we will talk about your dreams. Not the ones you can proudly discuss with friends - about business, cars, sports and great achievements. But about the ones you most often keep to yourself.
Do you know what is most interesting? These desires are absolutely normal. Moreover, many women know about them very well, but rarely hear them from you directly. Why? Because society still imposes a stereotype on men: "A man should be strong, confident, not whine, not dream about stupid things."
But let's be honest - we understand that you are living people with emotions and desires, right? πŸ˜‰
Let's figure out what men dream about but are afraid to talk about.

1. To be not a "defender", but someone who is also supported 🀲
You are used to the fact that they expect strength, confidence, and decisions from you. But who said that you always have to be cast iron?
In fact: πŸ’‘ Men get tired too. They also want someone to say: "I'm here for you", "I understand you", "You don't have to carry everything yourself".
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because every person needs support. Yes, even the coolest, most successful and "iron".

2. To talk openly about your emotions, without fear of condemnation 😢
"A real man doesn't complain", "Men don't cry", "Be strong" - have you heard of this? Of course, you have.
But let's be honest: do you sometimes get angry, sad, worried? You've just been taught since childhood that talking about it is a weakness.
In fact:πŸ’‘ Women do NOT want you to keep quiet when you feel bad. They want to understand you.
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because suppressed emotions do not disappear - they accumulate and then explode at the most unexpected moment. It is much cooler to be a man who knows how to talk about his feelings than one who keeps everything inside and one day loses control.

3. Sometimes just relax without guilt 😴
You work, earn money, solve problems. And if you suddenly want to spend the day doing nothing, a voice immediately wakes up inside: “You're lazy! You must be productive!”
In fact:πŸ’‘ No one can work at maximum speed 24/7. Even cars overheat.
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because rest is not weakness. It is a reboot, without which neither success nor strength is possible.

4. Receive compliments 😏
How many times in your life have you been told: βœ” "You're so attractive" βœ” "I like your smile" βœ” "You smell great" βœ” "You're so smart"
Probably much less than women, right?
In fact: πŸ’‘ Men want to hear nice words too. It doesn't make you vain, it just feels nice!
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because compliments are not just for women. A man who hears that he is cool automatically feels more confident.

5. Be yourself, not "meet expectations" 🎭
Society demands a lot from men: ❌ Be confident, but not too much. ❌ Earn money, but don't say that money is important. ❌ Be kind, but don't be "too much of a nice guy."
So what? A man is afraid to show his true self.
In fact:πŸ’‘ The most successful and happy men are those who stopped trying to please everyone and just started living the way they want.
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because it is impossible to please everyone. But you can find those who accept you for who you are.

6. Feel appreciated, not just used 🫢
Have you ever noticed that men are often told: βœ” "You're a man, so decide!" βœ” "A man should!" βœ” "It's your duty!"
But somehow gratitude is not always enough.
In fact:πŸ’‘ It is important for men not only to give, but also to receive in return: respect, gratitude, warmth.
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because relationships are an exchange, not a one-sided game.

7. Love and be loved - without "showing off" πŸ’™
Yes, men want love too. Real, without games, without falsehood, without "who will write first".
In fact:πŸ’‘ Men also want to feel needed, important and loved, and not just a "supplier of resources".
πŸ‘‰ Why is this normal? Because love is not a weakness. This is what makes life meaningful.

πŸ”₯ Bottom line: this is all normal! πŸ”₯
Men, forget about stereotypes. Your desires are not a weakness. βœ” Do you want support? This is normal. βœ” Do you want emotions? This is normal. βœ” Do you want rest? This is normal. βœ” Do you want to be loved? This is absolutely normal!
Masha❀️

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