So, let's figure out why we so badly want to fall in love with someone else's man, even if we have our own life and everything seems to be fine.
That he is like a new phone model.
Always something new, shiny and not research. All this affects us! Why are other people's husbands so handsome? The answer is simple: they are already "certified" by another woman! You see him and think: "Wow, he looks, opens doors, doesn't forget to congratulate you on your birthday." Yeah, he really does all this. Only it's not for you. But the idea "I can be better" starts spinning in my head.
He always has a perfect life!
Yes, of course! He's like the hero of a romantic comedy. He wears a suit, is smart, has charisma, never hassles at work and even washes the dishes. From time to time he throws compliments to his wife. And so you sit, watch this performance and think: "My husband didn't wash the dishes at all yesterday...". There's a catch somewhere here. Someone else's husband looks perfect, like "forbidden fruit", and this is exactly what attracts us.
Why not your own?
My husband is, well, normal, of course. He's so-so, not perfect. Sometimes he forgets to buy bread, sometimes his socks howl (well, yeah, that's inconvenient). And then someone else's husband appears! He irons shirts, hugs your neck, and you sit and think: "Maybe I should call him after all?" Well, what can you do, we women often look for adventures where there are none!
But here comes the most interesting part...
Why can't you love someone else's husband? The answer is obvious! It's like a pie that you can't eat because it's already on someone else's table. And it's unlikely to be as delicious as you imagine. And anyway, your wife - she knows everything. And she won't be very pleased if you start playing "forbidden" games. And you don't want such problems, right?
But what should you do if you want to?
The answer is simple: look, but don't touch! Falling in love with someone else's husband is like thinking about the cake you've eaten, but you're not allowed to. And you understand that it's better not to mess with him! It's nice to dream, but in reality there is always a path to happiness, and it lies through your beloved man, who, despite all the shortcomings, is still better than any other man.
Conclusion:
Loving someone else's husband is like looking at someone else's official message and thinking: "Oh, it's a pity that this is not mine!" But in the end, my pile of candies is still the sweetest. And yes, other people's husbands, no matter how tempting they are, always reveal secrets in themselves that you do not want to know. So whoever loves him better is already yours, and let other people's remain strangers. And you, my dear, earn your ideal man - with his funny habits and socks that you forget to take from hygiene.
With love and humor, Nadya .