The main reason a woman cheats is simple. She is with the wrong man! She believed she could change him, control him or manipulate him into who she wanted him to be.
Not who truly is!
Let's face it women love a challenge. Women are more competitive then men.
The number 1 type of man a younger woman chooses is based of her fathers worst traits. Instead of recognizing or wanting to admit this. She looks at that's man's positive side.
When life catches up to her. Maturity and experiences in life , like becoming a mother , career or a significant life changing event. She expects her husband to change as fast as she does.
But men do not change. Men hate change. They will fight it every step of the way.
The old saying is a woman is 7 years more mature than a man. But in today's society with all the things going on in life and opportunities.
Most women are about 20 years more mature then men their same age.
Why ? Their taught responsibility by their mother at a early age. About women's stuff body development and being a lady, privacy and more.
Men today are allowed by society to have less responsibility , less maturity, and their parents are still parenting them longer than ever before. Because it's harder to make it in life.
Young ladies are driven by emotions, hormones and more mature mentalities.
Yet most do not comprehend that the boys are so far behind.
So when a woman places her expectations to high. She is bound to be disappointed. The problem stems from communication. No one truly does in depth communication. They text, email and more indirect communication. Then being frank.
Cheating is not acceptable by anyone.
Women are held more accountable based on the fact they affect our children and society more than men do.
Women raise the children and children grow up affecting our society.
Decades ago people had to have face to face communication out in the open. Today it's more secretive and private.
Women today need to better qualify men!
Not always the best gifts come with the prettiest package or costs the most.
To know what a man is about is simple. First look at his family. How do the men treat the women in the family. Do it not at a glance. But truly study everyone . How the men treat the women in the family. Is how he's going to be with you later on.
A man's work or past work experience will tell you a lot about how he will treat a woman. If he does a physical job he has a physical mentality. If he has a mental job he has a mental mentality. If it's sales he's going to sell you. Or business or factory each one will tell you about the man. It's not complicated nor hard.
If a woman cheats it's often because they made the wrong choice in a man. Had unrealistic expectations for him, or they thought they could change their man.
It's all about choice!
If you keep being with the same type of person. Wouldn't it be wise to ask yourself why? Then ask yourself what's the common denominator.
In reality men and women don't want to cheat. To point the finger at one sex and say they don't do this or that. Is not fair and generalizing.
If men don't know how to treat a lady and fill her needs. Shouldn't we ask their mothers, sisters, aunts grandmothers why they can't or won't ? Since women mainly raise sons just as much as daughters.
Why they never taught him what truly are women's needs, wants or desires.
If one generation of men don't understand do we just accept it? How are the fathers, uncles, and grandfathers to teach those young men. When no one taught them.
If any person cheats it's because they can't effectively communicate with their partner!
Men and women are not mind readers. If their spouse is to stubborn to listen. Then get out of the relationship first. Instead of cheating on them. It's a really bad example to send to your children.
Unless you want your children doing the same to your grandchildren.
And your left watching them create one dysfunctional relationship after another. Destroying lives , names, reputations and more. Let's not forget the drama and legal expenses.
Why can't people just quit hiding behind masks and pretending to be who they are not . Be the real you , your authentic self.
Life is simple and easy !
Bad choices lead to difficulties . It's not that complicated to be real with one another. Quit pretending be who you are and need to be from day one! Take responsibility and accountability for your choices . Your life will go much easier!
Life is to short !