But do not panic! Romance should not disappear even a few years later. I am sure that you can maintain the fire of passion and mutual admiration, if you make a little effort and attention. Here are my ideas and advice on how to preserve romance in everyday life and not forget about feelings.

1. Do not forget about small gestures of love

Often we begin to perceive a person for granted, and this is normal. However, it is small gestures of love that can maintain the atmosphere of romance in long -term relationships. I began to practice such small surprises as leaving notes with pleasant words for him, preparing his favorite dish or just send a message during the day to say how much I appreciate it. This does not require much effort, but such simple things remind of love and create the feeling that we are always there, even if we are physically shared by kilometers.

2. Diversify your dates

Over the years, meetings can become familiar and monotonous. But romance does not leave if you continue to look for new ways to spend time together. I noticed that even a simple change in the situation or activity can add sharpness to the relationship. Instead of spending an evening at home again, you can arrange a date in the park, on the roof with a view of the city, go to an evening movie show or just go to a new cafe that you have not yet tried. New impressions create a special atmosphere and allow you to escape from routine.

3. Pay attention to your feelings and desires

At first, in relations, we often strive to satisfy each other's needs, but over time we can forget about what is important to ourselves. I realized that it is important not only to take care of a partner, but also not to forget about my own needs and desires. Talk to your partner about what you need and listen to him. If he understands you, it will be much easier to maintain romance, even if you do not have much free time.

4. Create your own traditions

When relations become more stable, this does not mean that you can forget about romance. I noticed that the presence of my own traditions helps maintain warmth and proximity in relationships. It can be simple things, such as parties for two, going for walks on weekends or joint watching your favorite films. Such traditions create an atmosphere of comfort and involvement, which is especially important when life becomes saturated and loaded.

5. Do not forget about physical proximity

It is no secret that over the years, passion can fade away, but physical intimacy is not only sex, but also simple manifestations of tenderness. Hug your partner for no reason, kiss your forehead before leaving the house, take your hand during a walk. I noticed that such moments maintain special proximity and fill the relationship with warmth. And, despite everyday worries, these moments remain those that recall the sensuality and intimacy that are so important in relationships.

6. Do not forget about compliments

When relations become long -term, compliments can begin to sound less often, but they still remain an important element of romance. We are used to the partner, and often forget to remind him of how we like him. For example, I try to regularly tell my partner how he is dear to me, how I appreciate his ability to listen, his kindness, or just how much I like his smile. It does not have to be something grandiose, but honest recognition of love and admiration is always pleasant.

7. Arrange "crazy" moments

Romance in a relationship is not only cozy evenings on the couch, but also unexpected, sometimes even crazy acts. I found that it is precisely such moments that create incredible memories that stay with you for a long time. It can be a spontaneous trip, an evening spent in a new unusual place, or an unexpected gesture, for example, give a loved one a ticket to a concert of his favorite group. I noticed that such unexpected and bold actions not only add romance, but also strengthen the connection between you.

8. Exaccurate to his hobbies

Sometimes romance leaves, because we begin to forget that a partner is not only our “love interest”, but also a person with his own hobbies, interests and dreams. I always try to maintain interest in the hobbies of my partner, whether it be music, sports or some hobby. Joint pastime, where we can share hobbies, not only deepens relationships, but also adds new topics for communication