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Love and expectation: how not to go crazy when you're waiting
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I know what it's like to wait. I know how your heart clenches at the thought of "when is it?" and how you want time to go faster. But I also know that it can be turned into a sweet period, not torture. That's what helps me not to go crazy.

1. Live not only by waiting

Yes, I want to be with him. But while we're not together, I have no right to stop my life. The more I immerse myself in my own affairs, the less my world revolves around the calendar. Work, walks, books, new hobbies - all this helps to fill the time that drags on.

2. Fill the space with him

His words, his voice – all this can be made part of the day. Rereading old messages, looking at his photos, writing him warm letters, imagining our meeting – these are not just dreams, but a way to bring reality closer, to make it more tangible.

3. Preparing for the meeting

Expectation is the perfect time to become even better. No, not for him, but for yourself. Pay attention to your appearance, update your wardrobe, change your hairstyle, go in for sports or simply learn something new. This helps you feel confident and beautiful on the day when we will finally be together.

4. Feel him even at a distance

I am learning to feel him, even when there are kilometers between us. I close my eyes and imagine him hugging me. How his voice sounds next to me. How our hands touch each other. Is this nonsense? Maybe. But they are warm.

5. Believe that it’s worth the wait

The most important thing is to remember that true love is worth it. Yes, sometimes I want to forget myself in doubts or fears, but I know that when I find myself in his arms, all of that will disappear. So I just wait. And smile.

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