Why does the feeling of a shortage of real men arise?
Changing gender roles. As society develops, the boundaries of male and female roles blur. This sometimes causes dissonance: what was previously perceived as "masculinity" is no longer always relevant.
Information noise. Social networks, bloggers and the media create images of "ideal men" that rarely fit into real life.
Personal experience. Disappointment after an unsuccessful relationship can lead to a generalization: "All men are like that."
The danger of "clinging to freaks"
When we feel a shortage of something valuable, there is a temptation to grab the first thing that comes along. It's like in a grocery store before closing: you take something questionable because you are afraid of being left hungry.
Low expectations. First you forgive minor shortcomings, then you turn a blind eye to serious problems.
Self-deception. "At least I'm not alone." But it's better to be alone than with someone who poisons your life.
Emotional costs. Unsuitable relationships take away energy, time, and self-confidence.
How not to fall into a trap?
Raise your standards. Understand what you want and don't settle for less.
Develop yourself. A self-confident woman attracts worthy men.
Don't be afraid of loneliness. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely. This is time for yourself, for your growth and joy.
Real men exist. Perhaps there aren't as many of them as we'd like, but they're definitely not among those who don't respect, appreciate, or inspire. Don't be afraid of being alone - it's better to be afraid of being with someone who isn't worth your time and emotions. Maria