What's really hidden behind a change wallet?
Pettiness in thoughts and actions. A man who collects pennies often transfers this same "pettiness" to relationships. He can count every penny spent, but emotionally his "investments" will be just as meager. Lack of large-scale thinking. Large goals and ambitions do not fit into a petty format. Such a man can be content with little, not striving for development, both in his career and in his personal life. The desire to control every detail. Splitting the bill to the last penny, controlling expenses, "forgotten" wallets in a restaurant - all these are red flags. How does a "small change wallet" manifest itself in a relationship?
Saving on everything. From holiday gifts to vacations together.
A tendency to be frugal. He can count who ate how much or who paid for what.
Unwillingness to share. Both money and emotions, support, attention.
Expectation of "benefits". If he does something for you, then most likely he expects something in return.
How to recognize a "petty" man?
He never leaves a tip. Even if the service was top notch.
His favorite phrase is "How much does it cost?" He often counts expenses than enjoys the moment.
He prefers "free". Free events, samples in stores, constant hunt for discounts.
He talks about money more often than about dreams. Material issues always come first for him.
Why is this important?
It's not about wealth or poverty, but about thinking. A man may not earn millions, but still be generous and magnanimous. Or, on the contrary, he may live in abundance, but constantly “keep his hand on his wallet”, not only financially, but also emotionally.
How to choose a man with a wide “soul wallet”?
Pay attention to generosity in small things. How he shares time, attention, care.
Look at his attitude towards other people. Does he respect waiters, drivers, colleagues?
Appreciate actions, not promises. Someone who is ready to act, and not just talk, will always be a reliable support.
A wallet for change is not about money, it is about an approach to life. When choosing a man, look not at his financial situation, but at his willingness to share everything he has - love, warmth, support.
A real man will not “collect pennies” either in his wallet or in a relationship. And she certainly won’t “pay with small change” for your happiness. Nadya.