Happiness is not always in expectations. Listen, we often live with the expectation that someone should make us happy. Just like that, bam - and happiness is on our face. We often waste time looking for someone who will open us up, appreciate us, who will understand. But the truth is that happiness comes not through expectations, but through someone else changing your inner world. And that someone is real. Once someone truly finds happiness in you, you realize that this connection is more than just a coincidence. It is not a casual crush, not a passing interest. It is when your person sees you not as an ideal, but as reality, and accepts it. For all your pros and cons. For your strengths and weaknesses. Guests are those who never understood. Now let's talk about those who pass by. Not because they are bad, but because they simply do not promote who you are. Or maybe they promote it, but cannot or do not want to accept it. In any case, such people remain "guests". They come into your life, they look, they affirm, but they never become a part of something real and deep. Guests are those who do not look. They can be near, but not share your world. They can be in your life, but not so much that you feel that this connection matters. Maybe they are on your way, but it is all only at the level of good conversations and partners for now. And nothing more.
Those who are “yours” become your whole life. The one who has found happiness in you is yours. What he sees is not only the external shine and masks, but also a hint of the essence of her being. This person is not afraid to be there, even when it is difficult for him, and does not leave when you are hurt or disappointed. He stays because he values ​​the real you, not the one who is on display. This is where true happiness begins. And it is not always smooth and cloudless. There may be many trials along the way, but this person is always with you. And this is incredibly valuable.
Think about it: who in your life is “yours”? Who sees you for real and values ​​exactly who you are? And who just passes by, and not because he is bad, but because he did not find happiness in you? Marina.