Many men have been surprised more than once, watching how girls fall in love with those who are not worth it. Why does this happen? Why do girls so often choose "bad boys", ignoring worthy and caring ones? Let's look at it in order. 🤔💭
🔹 The myth of "bad boys" In fact, women are not attracted to bad boys as such. The problem is that men often confuse invulnerability with rudeness. Women are drawn to confident men, and bad boys know how to create the appearance of such confident behavior. This does not mean that they are toxic or unpleasant - they are just not afraid to be themselves and act in their own way. 😎🔥
🔹 Women need intrigue and emotionsWomen often look for an emotional connection, real feelings, and "bad boys" know how to play with this. Of course, women do not want relationships with manipulators or abusers, but they often become attracted to those who are not so simple. This feeling that they are "dangerous" and "unpredictable" adds an element of excitement to the relationship. And what could be more exciting than a mystery that you want to solve? 💋💫
🔹 Why are good guys not attractive? Good guys, as a rule, show excessive attention, worry, are afraid of doing something wrong. Outwardly, they seem safer, but inside you feel some kind of "immaturity". Women are not always looking for a man who will be their "caretaker" or selflessly adapt to their desires. And it's not that nice guys are bad, but rather that they are too stuck in their stereotypes. 😬💔
💡 So, what should you do? You don't need to try to become a "bad guy". Just work on your self-confidence, learn to be confident in your decisions and not worry about little things. Women love men who behave naturally, confidently and know how to make decisions. Yes, you can be kind and caring, but this must be combined with independence, courage and self-respect. Women like to feel that they are next to a person who can decide for himself how to act in any situation, and does not adapt to other people's expectations. 💪💥✨
Maria💋