About wardrobe and life choices. Sometimes we keep things in our closets that have long since lost their relevance. Dresses that don't fit, shoes that pinch, or a bag that doesn't fit into any look. We keep them "just in case", but this case never comes. And at the same time, they take up space, create the illusion of fullness, preventing new, truly necessary things from entering our lives.
The same thing happens in relationships. We can hold on to a person who does not make us happy. Perhaps because of the fear of loneliness, because of habit, or because of illusions about what he could be like. But every day spent with someone who does not see true value in us, distances us from meeting someone who could give us true love and care.
Why do we hold on to the old?
Fear of change. It is scary to break familiar ties. It is not clear what lies ahead.
Emotional investment. A lot of effort and time has already been invested in a dress, as well as in a relationship.
The illusion of comfort. "Well, it is not perfect, but at least something." But is it worth being content with "at least something" when you can have "the best"?
Social pressure. We are afraid of condemnation: "Why are you alone?", "Why don't you have a partner?" or "You have been in this relationship for so many years!"
How to make room for the new?
Review your wardrobe and life. Honestly ask yourself: "Do I really need this?", "Does this make me happy?"
Let go without regrets. Don't be afraid to say goodbye to what's holding you back. Emptiness is better than a false sense of fullness.
Listen to your feelings. If something makes you uncomfortable, don't ignore it.
Open yourself up to something new. Free space attracts new opportunities, be it a stylish dress or a warm, real relationship.
Live in such a way that you feel like a queen every day!
A dress in your closet and a man in your life should bring joy. If this is not the case, it's time to clean up! Remember: the space around us and in our hearts should be occupied only by what makes us happy. Nadya.