Trust me, there’s nothing wrong with you. It’s just that maybe it’s the people you’ve dated who failed to appreciate your true worth. You deserve better.

There’s a strange pattern in this world: many men remain single despite all their efforts, hard work, intelligence, and kindness. But listen, I don’t think it’s your fault. I’m sure a big part of the problem is the women you’ve come across. More specifically, their immaturity, fears, and, sometimes, inability to truly open up and see you for who you are. You’re not alone, believe me. And I hope that you will understand that this is not your cross and not your tragedy.

I don’t know how many times I have seen men fail to find their soul mate. And, as strange as it may sound, I am sure that many of these men encounter women who are not ready for a real relationship themselves. Women who are afraid of love. Women who do not know how to appreciate a man as a partner, and not as some kind of addition to their life. Unfortunately, they often hide this fear and immaturity under the guise of independence and self-sufficiency. They build walls, and you, despite all your efforts, cannot tear them down, because there is not even a door to get inside.

I understand that perhaps you tried to prove your significance and dignity, and were even ready to invest in the relationship. You were probably looking for someone who would sincerely appreciate your care, your loyalty and your willingness to be there when needed. But at some point you realized that these qualities remain invisible to those who are nearby. And here you are again, alone, asking yourself "why?" Maybe you are trying to figure out what is wrong. But I want to tell you one thing that should take some of the weight off your shoulders: it is not your problem.

I am sure that for those women who can truly open up and understand what love means, you are a man worth being with. But in order for this to happen, it is important not to give up and not to be disappointed in yourself. Often women confuse their unpreparedness with the "wrong" man. But the truth is that if they cannot be open and mature in a relationship, they simply will not be ready to accept a man like you. And this is their fault, not yours.

You are worthy of love and respect. You are worthy of a woman who will be ready to build a real relationship with you, and not just avoid difficulties and hide from the very idea of ​​a real partnership. I want you to know that a woman who is ready to be with you will not be afraid of love and will appreciate you for who you are. It will not be easy, but she will not give up on you if you are honest and open with her.

You may have already faced disappointments, with attempts to build a relationship that did not work out. But do not forget: true love takes time and a willingness to work together. We are all looking for a partner with whom it will be easy and difficult at the same time. You are not looking for just a woman, but a person with whom you can build something real, not idealized. And believe me, it is possible.

I wish you not to lose faith in yourself and in love. No matter how many mistakes and disappointments were on the way, know: you deserve to be with someone who will appreciate your kindness and your strength. And when this woman appears, you will feel how everything fits into an ideal picture.

You are worthy of true love. And know that somewhere out there, on the other side of the world, there is a woman who understands this.

And her name is Lana Banana