So what should I choose?

Mascara is confidence.
Black arrows of eyelashes are a look that makes men forget what they were just talking about. This is a little magic that adds instructions to the eyes, a mystery to the smile and a little boldness in the movements. Mascara is the very armor with which we go out into the world, ready to conquer it with a look.
Tears are strength.
Not weakness, as is commonly thought, this is real, deep strength. When a woman cries, it means that she cares. So, her feelings are so strong that they are expressed in terms of words. And yes, men are afraid of women's tears, because they are difficult to resist.
But since you can't use mascara and tears at the same time, then perhaps the secret is to know when to use which weapon? We win some victories with a look from under the eyelashes, others - with sincerity and tears, which say more than any words.
The main thing is to remember: both make us women. Marina.