Love is not a sacrifice. Since childhood, many girls were taught: "Be patient", "True love is work", "Men need time to change". But let's be honest: does a woman come into a relationship to become a teacher, psychologist and trainer all in one?
Love is joy, support and harmony, and not an endless process of raising an adult. If something does not suit you, you have every right to talk about it right away. After all, a man is not a psychic or a telepath (although some are sure of the opposite).
If he does not hear, it means he does not want to. Someone once said: "A man changes only in two cases - if he really wants to or if he can't anymore." The first option rarely happens, the second is too late.
When a woman explains to her partner over and over again what doesn't suit her, and he pretends that everything is fine - this is not a misunderstanding, but an unwillingness to change something. And if a person does not want to change for the sake of a relationship, it means that he does not value it.
A breakup is not a tragedy, but freedom. Some women are afraid to leave, because "better this way than nothing." But, as practice shows, nothing is better than "this way." A free woman does not waste her nerves on persuasion, does not get disappointed in yet another promise and does not spend nights in tears. She knows: if the wrong person is nearby, it is better to make room for someone who will truly listen, respect and appreciate.
A woman is not obliged to tolerate what makes her unhappy. She is not a teacher or a correctional center. Love should bring joy, not stress. So if you are not heard, understood or respected, do not be afraid to put an end to it. After all, every time a woman chooses herself, she takes a step towards true happiness.