I'm no expert and I would never attempt to speak for other men. I will give you my thoughts on how to deliver real pleasure to a man. The first thing women need to know is that men are very simple. We need very little to keep us happy. If women were like men we would all still live in caves. Most of us are basically happy creatures. We keep things simple. We don't over analyze things. If we feel happy then we just accept that we feel happy. We may not know why we feel happy but that doesn't really matter.

Another thing that women should understand is that once we find a woman that we love almost everything we do is for her. I was married for 43 years and I worked hard and several times I worked 2 jobs. Not because I enjoy work. I worked to buy things like a house and a car and all kinds of other things just to make my wife know that I loved her and wanted her to have the things she wanted.

Women often say that they need their man to show his love for her. If a man works at a job that is not something he would do for free then he's trying to make a good life for himself and his lady. Doesn't that give her an idea that he loves her? When I bought a new car is was always for my wife. I always took over the older car. It was not because I love older cars. It was because I wanted to be sure that she would be safe and secure, knowing that a new car most likely will not break down. Doesn't that show love for your lady????? Many woman don't see these simple things having emotion attached to the act.

Whatever a man does when his lady asks him to do something like mow the lawn, he does it because he loves her and wants her to be happy. I never mowed the lawn after a day of work to make myself feel happy.

The best way to deliver a real pleasure to a man is to understand that most of the things he does are for his family not for himself. After my wife passed away I had no reason to do the hundreds of things that I used to do for her. I don't move from a home that is much to big for 2 people and where I don't use most of the rooms, because I don't want the extra work of moving to a smaller place. I don't eat big meals anymore because I don't need to cook. I have the new car now and it's not an automatic transmission. Automatic is all my wife could drive so that's all I would buy but now...

So, ladies if your man does things for the family he's doing them because he loves you and want's you to be happy. My thought is that women expect more from their man than men expect from anyone. Women don't take things at face value and it seems that they expect more from life. You don't need to thank us for the things we do for you everyday we only ask that you see it for what it is, a labor of love.

Those are my thoughts on what would deliver real pleasure to a man. However, I could be wrong and often am.