When there is no love - no problems?
If you don't love a woman, you are not jealous, you don't worry about her mood, you don't worry that you said the wrong thing or did the wrong thing. You can easily disappear for a week without explaining yourself, you can not answer calls, you can not try at all. In such a scheme, you really can be happy - exactly until the moment when you want something real.
Love = suffering?
Why is love often associated with difficulties? Because it requires investment: spiritual, emotional, time. When you love, you can no longer be completely independent, because you care about how the other person feels. You can't live only by your own interests, because there is someone dear to you.
Love makes us vulnerable. But it is in this vulnerability that true beauty lies.
What is better: lightness or depth?
Is it possible to be happy without loving? Perhaps. But can this be called happiness?
True happiness is not just comfort and the absence of drama. It is the ability to go through difficulties, to appreciate a person not only in moments of joy, but also when it is difficult. Love makes us grow, change ourselves, seek compromises. It teaches patience, care, trust.
You can be happy with any woman if you do not love her. But you can only be truly happy with the one you love. Even if it is not always easy. Marina.