Why do women strive for marriage?
Since childhood, many girls grow up with the attitude that marriage is an important stage in life, a symbol of stability and social recognition. In addition, historically, it was beneficial for women to get married sooner, since marriage provided them with financial security and protected them in society. Although today women are more independent, the instinctive desire for family comfort and security still plays a role.
But is marriage always a rush? Modern women are increasingly postponing this step, preferring to first realize themselves in a career, travel, and personal growth. So this is no longer a rule, but rather a choice.
Why do men avoid marriage?
The stereotype that men do not want to get married while they can avoid it also has roots in the past. Marriage has traditionally been associated with responsibility, limited freedom, and financial obligations. Men have historically been given more time to realize their ambitions, while marriage was perceived as a point of stability, but also a certain rejection of the previous way of life.
However, modern men are also changing. Many of them are no longer afraid of early marriage and consciously strive for serious relationships. The question is not about the reluctance to marry, but about when this happens out of genuine mutual readiness.
Where is the truth?
Perhaps the problem is not that a woman wants to get married and a man does not, but that society has long imposed these roles. Today, more and more people get married when they feel they are ready, and not because “it is necessary.” The main thing is to find a person who shares your views and desires.
Choosing the moment for marriage is not a matter of gender, but a matter of maturity, love, and readiness for a life together. Nadya.