I agree with you wholeheartedly. Being in love does not mean that you have to stick together like "Siamese twins" all the time. You each need your "space". Yes, at certain times, you need to be together, but there are times when you need your own company to meditate, to think your own thoughts, to examine the way your life is going, in your own time. You might not share the same hobbies with your partner, but you have to respect them and learn to be tolerant of them. There are times when you come together to support each other, but, hey! you need your own time alone, sometimes.

In successful relationships, you need to have that "balance," that "give-and-take". As in our parlance we say, "yah me, yah you." Which is to say that we do unto others as we would have them do unto us. Couples are people that are uniquely individual, in possession of their own thoughts and their own feelings. The secret is in knowing each other's thought processes and adapting ourselves to suit them. That's what makes good relationships. We must be able to trust each other, to be able to spend time away from each other. A woman must be able to meet with her women friends or vice versa, the male, but they must never neglect each other. There are always limits to everything.

I hope that I've been able to add my "two cents" to this blog. Have a great day/night everyone.

KenMitch.