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How to recognize a toxic relationship from the very beginning?πŸ’– β€οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ’‹πŸ˜ˆ
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You're happy, you're needed, you're her hero. But what if there's something else hidden behind this delight?

Toxic relationships rarely start with obvious signs. On the contrary, everything seems even too good.

She says that you are her world, that no one has ever loved her the way you do. You believe.

And then the little things appear: "Why did it take you so long to answer?", "Why do you need these friends?", "I know better what's right for you."

You don't immediately notice how instead of freedom comes a feeling of guilt, instead of joy - tension, instead of love - dependence.πŸ˜’

At first, she's just jealous, but it's cute, right?

Then she gets upset if you don't answer right away, gets offended by every word you say, demands more and more attention.

You suddenly catch yourself trying to avoid conflicts, that you no longer say what you think, don't see those you want.

And the worst thing is that you start to lose yourself.βœ¨πŸ™

Remember: love is not a cage.πŸ’–

It's not when you're afraid to say that you're busy, not when you're afraid to cause another scene of jealousy.

Love gives you strength, it doesn't suck it out.

How to recognize alarm bells?

✨ She wants to control your decisions, calling it caring.
✨ Her emotions depend on your actions, and you feel guilty.
✨ She demands too much attention, gets offended if you are busy with something else.
✨ You notice that you started living in such a way as to avoid her indignation.

True love is support, freedom, respect.✨

Take care of yourself. πŸ’– And remember: you deserve to be with someone who inspires, not suppresses. πŸ˜‰

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