But you know what's funny? If we follow this logic, the only way to prove that she doesn't have a lover is to leave her head at home. But we don't really want to, do we? The head is a useful thing, and without it, it's unlikely that she'll look impressive.
Why do women always love someone?
In fact, people just don't believe that a woman can be happy... on her own. If she smiles, it's definitely the man who made the effort! If she's sad, it's also because of him. And here I want to ask: maybe she just has a new pair of shoes? Or a discount on her favorite coffee? Or is she thinking about which TV series to watch tonight?
The lover everyone is looking for.
But what if this mysterious lover is not a man at all? Maybe it is her favorite book that keeps her awake at night? Or the work that lights up her eyes? Or maybe her lover is the freedom to do what she wants, without other people's guesses and stereotypes?
So if next time someone tells you that you have a lover, just smile. Because if you have a head, you have love... for life, for yourself, for your dreams. And everything else - let it remain in other people's fantasies. Maria.