Hello my dear readers, with you again Olga. Today in my beautiful little head after a review of one of the series of "Dr. House" with his "Everybody Lie" got another question - why do we time? Why do we tell lies to our friends and loved ones?
Very often trying not to hurt our dear people, we hide from them some things, we do not talk about something. By the way, I want to disappoint the users of "non-negotiation or silence of the truth" - even if you just miss the truth, you still lie. After all, put a comma not there or take away the word, the entire meaning of the sentence or situation changes.
Is it worth it? Is it worth the couple of minutes of relief that you will get by saying not the truth, the time that you will lose when the truth comes out. The secret sooner or later still becomes obvious. The question is - why lie?
Having said the truth to a person, yes - it will be unpleasant, in some cases it hurts a little, but (!) Is not more painful than when a person finds out the truth later or worse - not from you.
The truth can make life easier not only for you, but for your loved ones. Try to tell the truth all day long. That's directly, directly in the eyes without hiding anything. This is such a burden from the shoulders! Lies have not helped anyone, she will still find her way out - and the later it will be, the more painful.
Love each other and respect! Tell the truth, be sincere)))
With love, your Olga!)