Have you ever noticed that it's easier for you to say yes than to say no? 🤔 That you're always trying to please, even if you don't like it? Then I have bad news: you've become a "convenient guy." But there's good news: you can get out of this. Let's figure out how. 🚀

1. Understand why you became this way

If you're always trying to be convenient, most likely the reason is fear - fear of losing people, disappointing someone, or seeming rude. But you know what? The people who truly respect you won't disappear just because you started setting boundaries. And those who disappear were just using you. ❌

2. Learn to say "no"

Saying "no" is a skill. Start small. For example, if a colleague asks you to stay after work, and you don’t want to — just say “No, I have other plans.” Don’t make excuses, don’t apologize. A clear “no” is normal. 💪

3. Define your boundaries

Clearly decide for yourself what you are ready to tolerate and what you are not. No one has the right to talk rudely to you, take advantage of your kindness or manipulate you. As soon as someone crosses the line, say so directly. 🚧

4. Stop looking for approval

You don’t have to please everyone. It’s impossible. Once you understand that someone else’s opinion does not determine your value, you will feel free. Be yourself, and not who you are told to be. 🔥

5. Work on your confidence

The more confident you are in yourself, the less you need to be “convenient”. Go in for sports, work on your goals, improve your skills. When you are confident in yourself, you do not need to seek approval from the outside. 🏋️‍♂️

6. Respect yourself

The most important step. If you respect yourself, you will not allow others to treat you as "convenient". Start small: take care of your health, do not agree to uncomfortable compromises, surround yourself with people who appreciate you. 👏

Being a "convenient guy" is not destiny, but a habit that can be gotten rid of. As soon as you begin to respect yourself, the world around you will change. People will begin to take you seriously, and those who used you will disappear on their own. And this is only for the better. So stop being convenient. It's time to be yourself. 💥

Victoria😘