I believe that a real relationship is not about merging into one being. It is about two strong people who maintain their individuality and respect the other person. If you lose yourself, you risk turning the relationship into a cage.
Too often people try to be perfect for their partner, sacrificing their dreams, interests, and principles. But true love is when you are accepted exactly as you are.
You should not dissolve in someone. It is worth finding a balance between loving another person and loving yourself. After all, only by preserving your uniqueness can you build healthy and harmonious relationships.
I need a man who understands this simple truth. I want to be with someone who respects my freedom as much as I respect his.