Never pressure your spouse. Men hate to be pressured. Many situations would be easily accommodated if pressure wasn’t applied.
Put him first. Whether married or not, whether you have children or not, your spouse must come first... always. He needs to be secure in the fact that the head on the pillow next to him is in his court, right or wrong. Men look at things in a very concrete manner, and if you put friends, children, and career above him, it won’t be long before you don’t have him.
Don’t make decisions unilaterally. The key to a relationship is mutuality. It tells your spouse that you’re invested in him and that you value his thoughts and feelings. If you give your spouse the message that he’s “less than,” he will look for someone else who will support him and make him feel strong.
Don’t be critical. It’s important not to treat your mate like your child. Don’t tell him what to wear, how to cut his hair, or what to say and do. This only serves to engender low self-esteem, and people who feel insecure and impotent may find negative ways to act out.
Be honest in your day-to-day relationship. If you have a budget, keep it. If you have gone over it, tell him. Don’t maneuver, lie, or hide anything. Whatever it is, you can work it out together.
Well, these are the things I prefer to follow to make my man happy. Do you agree with me?