After I began to pay attention to the fact that it may be the reason that the relationship does not develop, I managed to identify several typical female mistakes. And I decided to share them with you so that we can all avoid these “traps” and build strong and harmonious relations.

1. Excessive dependence on the opinion of a man

We all want a man to approve of our decisions, choose us and show attention. But when we begin to depend too much on his opinion and cease to be ourselves, it can push him away. Men appreciate women who are confident in themselves, know how to make independent decisions and do not depend on someone else's approval. I myself was in a situation where I tried to please the man, forgetting about my own needs and desires. This did not lead to good results.

How to avoid this error? First of all, you need to remain true to yourself. Trust your decisions, do not focus only on the opinion of the partner and do not lose your individuality for the sake of other people's expectations.

2. Constant claims and criticism

Men do not like when a woman complains about them too often or criticizes their actions. If, instead of maintaining and inspiring, I begin to constantly point to his mistakes, this makes the relationship intense. Of course, constructive criticism has a place to be, but it is important not to cross the border. Constant complaints and criticism create the feeling that we are unhappy, and this does not add attractiveness.

What can be done? It is best to approach a conversation with understanding and respect. If something does not suit, it is better to calmly discuss the problem, and not try to control the behavior of a man. Create an atmosphere of trust where you can openly share many thoughts, but without accusations.

3. Fast attachment and excessive perseverance

One of the biggest mistakes that I made in the early stages of the relationship was too fast attachment to a man. I immediately began to think about the future and build locks in the clouds, even if the relationship was just beginning. Men feel when a woman becomes excessively persistent or expects too much too early. This creates pressure and can scare the partner.

How to avoid this error? It is worth giving relationships to develop naturally, not to force events and not to demand from a man a serious steps immediately. You need to learn how to enjoy the moment and trust the process.

4. Ignoring their needs and desires

Very often women tend to give all their strength, attention and love to a man, forgetting about their own needs. I myself was in this trap - I constantly thought about what he needed, and not for himself. But as a result, such relationships begin to look unilateral. Men appreciate women who know how to take care of themselves, develop and go their own way, not forgetting about it.

How to avoid error? Do not forget about your interests, friends, hobbies and work. Do not turn yourself into a "victim" of relations where all your desires are subordinated to another person. Respect for yourself and your needs is the key to a healthy relationship.

5. Lack of confidence and independence

When a woman begins to look at a man as her savior, this can scare away. Men love women who are confident in themselves and can cope with difficulties without constant help. I understand that in difficult moments I want to support, but it is important to remember that in relations we should be partners, and not depend on another person.

How to avoid this error? Develop self-confidence, do self-development and do not forget that you are a whole person, and not someone's shadow. Respect for yourself and your independence is a very attractive feature.

The mistakes that we make in a relationship are not always fatal. It is important to learn how to notice them and work on yourself. A woman who is aware of her mistakes and strives for the better will not only be attractive to a man, but herself will be happier.